?

Log in

wala lang...

Makikiraan lang po...

Kasal, Eleksyon at Diborsyo

Ilan nga ba sa atin ang nanunuod pa ng mga Tagalog Flicks? 
Malamang sa mundo ng Call Center, bibihira na o baka iilan na lang sila.
Ilan kaya sa inyo ang nakapanood ng Kasal, Kasali, Kasalo?
Ako, aaminin ko, hindi ko sya napanood kahit na gusto kong maging parang si Juday...
Fitrum with L-carnetin at iba pang mga ka-eklatan ng buhay...
Bakit ko nga ba gusto pag usapan ang pelikula kung ako mismo eh hindi ko napanood?
Wala lang...LJ ko kasi ito eh...

Nito lang nagdaang araw, may maliit na diskusyunan kami ng mga iilan kong mga kapanalig, kabalitaan at kakampi...
May isa kasi dumating at nagtanong tungkol sa eleksyon...
Sino daw ba iboboto namin?
Hindi ako sumagot...hindi naman ako botante eh..
Bakit ako makikialam...
Hinayaan ko lang sila at malamang sa malamang...
HIndi rin mga rehistradong botante 'tong mga ito...

Pati mga jingles ng botante or slogan eh alam nila...
Naroon kay Mike..."TOL...chuva chcnelyn...eqlavum"...
Ang Pechay ng Bayan... "Pro-PINOY daw"...
May isa naman ang sabi..."IDOL...ng mga gambling lords..."
At kung anik-anik pa...
(Kwentuhan lang naman, sana wag seryosohin noh?!?!)

Ngunit sa gitna ng walang kwentang usapan,
May isang nilalang na tumayo at nagmutawi...
"Kung sino man ang magpapasa ng Divorce bill, iboboto ko sya kahit taon-taon"
Eh ngenge pala sya eh!
Hindi ba nya alam na 6 na taon ang termino ng isang kandidato?!?!
Malamang nga, hindi pa rehistrado 'tong si 'Tol...

At nagulantang ako sa aking narinig,
Naisip ko, "Eh kakasakal...este..kaka kasal pa lang nito ah...bakit divorce na sinasabi?"
Naging mainit ako sa kanya at tinanong,
"Bakit ka nagpakasal kung divorce bill naman pala ang nais mo?"
At muli nagsabi ako, "hindi ko na kailangan pa tanungin, kung masaya ka sa buhay may asawa mo."
Hindi pa ba halata..siya na ang pinakamasayang kakakasal pa lang...
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA...

Hindi ko sya tinantanan,
Sabi ko.."Hindi por que nabuntis mo nobya mo eh DAPAT mo na sya pakasalan?"
Naman kasi...walang ganito kung walang magulang na makikitid ang utak...
Tinanong ko sya, "Ilang taon ka na?"
Sumagot si mokong, "27 na ako"
ABA! Hindi pa yata alam ang batas na sumasaklaw sa kasal.
Sinoman ang may balak magpakasal at hindi pa sya 25 y/o eh kailangan ng PARENTAL CONSENT...
Alam nya kaya ito...malamang hindi...

Tinanong ko muli sya. "Bakit ka nga ba nagpakasal?"
Sagot ba naman eh ito, "Kasi yung mga magulang nya ang mapilit..."
Naman! Sana yung magulang nya ang pinakasalan
And besides, yung parental consent eh hinihingi lang kung gusto mo humingi ng consent na pakasalan ang nobya mo...
Hindi saklaw nun ang pag hingi ng consent na hindi nya pakakasalan ang kanilang anak...
NAMAN!!!!

Biglang iniba ang usapan, nagsalita sya muli at hindi ko sinadyang marinig...
Sabi ba naman ulit, "Mabait naman ang anak ko eh..."
Eh ano ba alam ng anak nya???
Isa syang inosenteng niluwal sa mundong ito 
Na hindi pa alam kung kaninong magulang sya mapupunta...
Inosente nga eh...

At hindi pa sya tumigil...
Nagsalit pa ulti at sabi, "Hindi na nga sapat ang kinikita ko eh.."
Haaayyyy....Naku naman kuya, sino ba naman kasi nagsabi na mura mag-asawa...
At gusto pa nya ng DIVORCE?!?!
Wala nga sya pambili ng gatas at diaper ng anak nya
Divorce pa iniisip...

Isang lata ng gatas eh halos isang libo na...
Yung isang kilo naman para schuschal...
Niloko ko tuloy...
"Kaya nga dapat, bago magpakasal, iisipin lagi na mahal at magastos ang Annulment"
Nagbigay ako ng break down kasi may kilala ako na nasa process ng annulment...
Kayo? Sa palagay nyo ba, mas mura ang divorce sa annulment pag nagkataon?
Malamang pareho rin...
Pareho kasi silang batas kaya malamang pareho ang halaga nya...

May sumingit ba naman at ang sabi.."Dapat LIVE-IN na lang"
Kakaloka talaga mga chuva na itich!
Sabi ko lang naman eh bago magpakasal, isipin na mahal ang annulment at walang divorce dito...
lagyan daw ba ng "I therefore conclude..." ang sinabi ko...
Assumptionista ka?!?!
Hindi ko sinabi yun...

Nakakaloka talaga ang araw na ito...
Sana kasi, hayaan na lang ng mga magulang na magdesisyon ang anak nila
Besides, wala naman sila nung ginagawa ng mga anak nila ang magiging apo nila diba?!
Maipapasa nga kaya ang Divorce Bill into a Law pag nagkataon?
Sana mabilang ang boto nyo sa darating na eleksyon..
At sana rehistrado yung kausap ko kanina para malay nya...maaprubahan...

Isa lang talaga ang gusto ko sabihin,
Isipin na magastos ang annulment at walang divorce sa Pinas...bago ka magpakasal...




---Nagbabahagi lang po ng isang makulay kong araw...Wag masyado seryosohin...

I am not a fan of love stories nor fictional books but I am more of the self help books I can find anywhere. As in anywhere... I was in Robinsons' Imus and I came across this book entitled "Ten Stupid Things WOMEN do to mess up their lives". At first I thought it will give me trash thoughts. Who in the world would want to mess up their lives?!? DUH! Count me out dude! But since it caught my interest, I still bought it for Php70 only. I went home and of course didn't mind opening it yet. I said, I'm gonna read it when I feel like reading it already. After a week, I got bored of surfing the net, doing movie marathon nor talking over my mobile phone. While I was fixing my stuff, I saw this, opened it and started reading it. As I turn the pages, thoughts of previous stupidity of people I know (including myself) come back. The Ten Stupid Things WOMEN do to mess up their lives are the following:

1. Stupid Attachment : "is a Woman Just a Wo-Wo-Wo on a Man?" You typically look at the context of a man to find and define yourself.
2. Stupid Courtship : "I finally found someone I could attach to" and other stupid Ideas about dating. Desperate to have man, you become a beggar, not a chooser, in the dating ritual.
3. Stupid Devotion : "But I love him..." and MORE stupid romantic stuff. You find yourself driven to love and suffer and succor in vain.
4. Stupid Passion : "Ohhh...Ahhh...We're breathing hard...It must mean LOVE..." You have sex too soon, too romantically, and set yourself up to be burned.
5. Stupid Cohabitation : "The Ultimate Female Self-Delusion". So stop lying to yourself! You are not living with him because you love him. You're living with him because you hope he'll want you!
6. Stupid Expectations : "First you commit to him then you hate him???" using marriage as a quick fix for low or no self esteem.
7. Stupid conception : "Making babies for the worst reasons." Misguidedly, you used biology as a jump start for love, personal growth and commitment.
8. Stupid Subjugation : "Letting him hurt your babies." You and your children are held hostage to your own obsessive need for security and attachment.
9. Stupid Helplessness : "Oh, I always whine and whimper when I'm angry." Too scared and insecure to deal with your rage, you turn into wimpishness.
10. Stupid Forgiving : "I know he's adulterous, addicted, controlling, insensitive and violent..but other than that..." STUPID!!!! You don't know when to break off a no-win relationship, or how not to get involved in the 1st place.


I copied it straight from the book. Have you already thought of women close to you who are like anyone of this??? Hehehe..funny but true and hurtful.




(Ten Stupid Things WOMEN do to mess up their lives by Dr. Laura Schlessinger)

Tags:

muni-muni moments

How long have you been in your company? 3 years? 5? 10? The feeling does not change whether you're a newbie or has been an institution in it, what matters is that you are happy and enjoying the job you are tasked to do. Sometimes, it feels like you're burnt out and worn out that you just want CHANGE....

Yah know..
BOREDOME
...It corrupts and eats you whole.

It is one of  the biggest challenges of every employee in this world, aside from your boss. It halts your interest and the will to continue doing your best. Sad to say but most people who experience this just do their job for compliance...for
STRICT compliance or you're OUT
- leave your badge! Hahaha... Of course, no one can afford losing their bread & butter for they are sometimes the "BREAD" of the family... Ahihihihi...

Sometimes, at the peak of boredome, we tend to think of quittting...LOSER!!!! Who lost, you or the company?!?! One of LJ bloggers inspired me when she said :"Do not leave the company because you're so damn frustrated about the way things are being run or stay because you have this "messianic complex" that you can change things overnight. Be realistic about things. Learn to accept that there is not perfect company"  You cannot run from reality nor change things the way it is just right now. YOU are the one who should change..who should adjust... One day you'll find yourself thinking, "What shall I do to overcome this?"

One friend said, "choose your battle so life would be a lot easier for everyone...including yourself." Hmmm...make sense... Try sorting things out. Think of things that you should not mind caring about to stop this B.S.  It's hard at first but you know, you'll find it rewarding if you realize its worth to yourself. 


*wink*
*wink* *wink* *wink*

Tags:

Polygons

Circle...

Square...

Rectangle...

Octagon...

These are the shapes I have studied back in college. All the formulas we have memorized and have applied oddly on things. But yah know what? I just realized that TRIANGLE is the loneliest type of polygon. You may call me eccentric but to my analysis, it's true. 

As you climb up and reach the top of that figure, it gets colder and even lonelier as ever...

Just like what the old man say "It's lonely at the top..."


Just a thought for everyone...

CIAO!!!

Tags:

What's your preference???

The Multidimensional Scale of Sexuality

According to my answers, it is likely that I identify as
Concurrent bisexual
or equally,
Past heterosexual, currently homosexual.

Complete set of results

Concurrent bisexual:  3
Past heterosexual, currently homosexual:  3
Heterosexual with some homosexuality:  2
Homosexual with some heterosexuality:  2
Sequential bisexual:  2
Heterosexual:  1
Homosexual:  1
Asexual:  0
Past homosexual, currently heterosexual:  0


Information

The Multidimensional Scale of Sexuality was devised by Larry Kurdek, B. Berkey and T. Perelman-Hall. It is an extension of the Klein Sexual Orientation Grid, recognising that sexual identities can change over time, people can identify with more than one sexual identity, and that asexuality is a valid sexual identity. The Multidimensional Scale of Sexuality was published in the "Journal of Homosexuality" in 1990.

Take the quiz

Hey there!

Nothin special though. I just wanna say hi to all the people in LJ!  Anyway, I hope you're all safe after the rain this weekend. I'm a happy heart. That's all that I can say....

Have a nice shift!!!

What's ur style then?

Tags:

So In Love...

I just wanna share a video from Ally McBeal.. Did you see it?! Here's another one... Not everyone loves Regine Velasquez (not even me...hehe...) but this one is so kilig... Watch it!

Let's fall in love over and over again...

Tags: